I went through the immigration process in America

We get letters...

I'll repeat for the hundred-and-fiftieth time: people throw obstacles in your way everywhere. I went through the immigration process in America. Quite the ride. For example, we had to gather "testimonials" from all the family's close relatives so they could confirm that my husband and I love each other. And the relatives lived in different states. And how much money we spent on a lawyer, travel, medical exams... When I submitted my citizenship application, I was told that our tax documents were "not prepared the way they should be." Do you think anyone told me beforehand HOW they should be prepared? 

And I already wrote once that my husband's brother applied for German citizenship three years ago. And only just the other day did he receive it, because his documents were first put on the back burner and then simply lost.
There's no perfect solution anywhere. In some places everything goes smoothly. And in others, yes, you have to get nervous. 
But it's strange to expect miracles. We don't live in a fairy tale. Come on, man...